THE MESS IN HER WOMB BY DR. CHHAVI GANDHI JUNEJA

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“But you know our society, when you don’t raise kids, they raise questions.”

“And how did you handle them?”

“I didn’t. I ignored them.”

-THE MESS IN HER WOMB BY DR. CHHAVI GANDHI JUNEJA



So, here’s the deal - you write a book which speaks about real issues like mental trauma, dealing with infertility, childhood trauma and dysfunctional families with a beautiful cover page printed on it and written flawlessly - I’m sold!

And when the book is in own voice and written by a doctor turned author, that’s an A1+ for me. (I have not even started hyping this book up😅)

TMIHW is about Drishti and Pranay, a happily married couple, embarking on an IVF journey. The journey is not as easy and the physical and emotional trauma is borne by Drishti, who struggles to cope with conception and her full time job as a physician. She is persistent though and bears all those agonising undeserved treatments (both therapeutic and from the society) to have her baby. Whether this journey gives her what she needed or not is to you to find out, but she manages to identify herself and her relationship with her loving husband.


PROS: I thoroughly, thoroughly loved this book. This book throws light on what infertility really is and how much do couples struggle to deal with it.

Enlightens about the struggles associated with IVF and the amount of physical and mental anguish it can cause.

Has a beautiful cover.

Written so flawlessly and manages to kindle all the emotions of the reader at the right places.

Also covers the importance of mental health and therapy.


CONS: You know what is wrong with this book? That it is not hyped up much and hasn’t reached a wider audience yet which it totally deserves.


MY REVIEW: 5/5

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